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Better Together. Period.

Better together.

Period.


Losing Ari could have wrecked us as a couple. We could have become one of the statistics.

 

We could have given up on one another, went opposite ways when our grief did the same.

 

We could have wallowed in our own bubble of pain, not communicating or telling one another we need help.

 

But we didn't.

 

We found more love, more fight within us to not let her death break us, but to let her LIFE lead us.

 

She leads us every day to choose better. To be better as a couple. To be better parents. Better friends. Be better human beings.

 

It is not a walk in the park. In fact, it is more like a marathon.


But, not one other person on this planet will ever be able to understand the depth of pain we each carry more than one another.

 

Though we grieve differently, he gets me. He is my person.

 

Grief exists because love did first.

 

And ever since grief entered our life, it's been about finding our way through it......

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Running into the Dark

 

Ragnar Trail Run.


Northwoods of Wisconsin.

Requires running into the dark.


Head down, heart racing, following a path into the unknown, in fear, to the things ahead I cannot see...

 

Falling. Bruises, cuts and scrapes. Aches and pains. Struggling. Continuing the race, broken and tired. But fighting until it is finished.

 

I think this is the metaphor of my life.

After the loss of a child, life is certainly a struggle. I recognize and honor that truth. And it is ok to struggle. But you have a choice every day to fight for more. In truth, that is not easy. But it is possible.


You can either let fear of the unknown slip into every other part of your life, inhibiting you from truly enjoying it. Or you can battle and fight, start to stretch yourself, take risks (even with fear, not knowing the outcome) and still fully experience the beauty left in this life.


After the loss of Ari, the things I once feared and thought that if attempted I would surely fail, I have conquered. I...

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